Law Of Attraction Tips

Here are some things you can do to implement the LOA in your life so that we can ensure you get your vibration in tune to where it needs to be so that you can receive what you've been trying to achieve in your spellwork...

1. Don't worry about how things will manifest.

When you ask a builder to build you a home, you don't sit there and worry about how the foundation is going to be put down, how the frame is going to be built up, how the siding will be put up... you just know the house will manifest. You do not micromanage every single little detail... if you did, you wouldn't need the builder because that's his job. Instead you sit back and wait for your house to manifest for you with excitement and anticipation. Of course there are going to be bumps in the road, building a house is a big project and it's to be expected, but your trust is in the builder to take care of things and keep the process moving.

Look at the Universe as your "builder" of sorts. You place the order and then you let the builder (or in this case, the Universe) be in charge of how it's going to get these things to manifest for you. Don't be the annoying customer to the Universe who keeps asking and worrying about how things will happen. If you keep pestering the builder and asking tons of questions because you are worried about things you don't understand it would slow things down dramatically since he has to stop managing the building of the house and taking time away from his project to work on your issues. So it goes to reason that if you do this to the Universe, it would slow down that process as well. So place your "order" to the universe and stop worrying about how it will happen, just have the same faith it would just like you would if you went in, got approved for a loan, found your builder and got started working on your house. You know you will soon have a house. It's the same when you order from the Universe and you have to believe that you will soon have the things you've just asked for.

“Don't think too much. You'll create a problem that wasn't even there in the first place.”

“Worry is a total waste of time. It doesn't change anything. All it does is steal your joy and keep you very busy doing nothing.”

“Worrying is like sitting in a rocking chair, it gives you something to do but doesn't get you anywhere.”~English Proverb

2. Don't worry about when things will manifest.

You have to know that they will. Of course you would want things to be instant, but things do not work this way with the Universe and for a good reason. Would you really want to manifest every thought you had instantly? That would be horrible. Imagine having a fight with someone you loved and wishing something bad happened to them simply because you were upset in that moment. So it's for our own protection that we do not get what we want instantly because the Universe knows that we need time to consider if what we want is something we REALLY want.

If you set dates and times when something should come to you, all you are doing is setting yourself up for failure. Think back to that builder of your home. Usually there is a date you both agree to close... but it is rare to actually hit that date. So if you wouldn't just say "Screw it, I'm done with this house." because you didn't get it completed by the date it was set to manifest, why would you do this with your spells and goals? Since you can visually see how far your house has come and how close you are to being in it, you suck it up and agree to wait a bit longer. You'd rather have things done right instead of rushed. Unfortunately you don't see the energy you put out into the Universe or how close something is about to be manifested so it's easier to just throw in the towel, but you might have no idea that the last finishing touches are being put on your miracle just when you throw it away. So stop focusing on when, it will slow things down.

“Never give up on a dream just because of the time it will take to accomplish it. The time will pass anyway.” ~Earl Nightingale

“Worrying is using your imagination to create something you don't want.”

“One day you'll look back and realize that you worried too much about things that don't really matter.”

3. Learn to LOVE.

This might seem silly, of course you know how to love. Heck, a good portion of you are here because of being in love. But, I can promise you, most of you do not know what it means to love. You know how to be in love... but don't know how to truly love. This is something you need to learn all over again. Have you ever watched a child say he or she loves the smallest things? I've seen my kids say some of the funniest things... "I sure love this swing set." "I love my goldfish, he's the best fish in the world." "I love my teacher." "I love recess." "I love art class." The point is, children love EVERYTHING! Their world is full of new and fun things to love. They love new people, they love new experiences, they love their toys, they love their friends, and they love us. Deeply! This is the love you need to discover again. This emotion operates at such a high vibration that the Universe takes notice. This is also one of the reason why children are so full of wonder and are not even a fraction as stressed out as we adults are. So we need to get back to the roots of love.

Even though it might sound cliche, you also have to make sure you are giving yourself love. If you wake up every day looking in the mirror and only seeing a flawed person, you are not loving yourself. If you constantly feel guilty or unhappy, you are not loving yourself. If you are putting junk into your body and allowing yourself to consume negative thoughts from others either online, in person, or on the news, you are not loving yourself. If you can't love yourself, you really can't expect anyone else to be able to either, so start loving yourself and stop the negative self talk.

Start to let love shine from you. Look at everything you see with love. Even things you don't understand or hurt, look back at them with love while you walk by those negative things. Like attracts like. If you want love... you have to magnify love back. So let love beam from every pore on your body.

“Our days are happier when we give people a bit of our heart rather then a piece of our mind.”

“Promote what you love instead of bashing what you hate.”

“Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness.” ~Oliver Wendell Holmes

“Happiness is in your ability to love others.”~Leo Tolstoy

4. Believe in your own ability to control your destiny.

You might not understand how magick or the law of attraction works, but they do. This is ok, you do not have to understand how something works in order to benefit from it. Most things we benefit from we don't fully understand exactly how they came to be or how they work, yet we are ok with this because we have faith they will benefit us and they do. With magick and the law of attraction though, you are one of the ingredients that actually make things possible for yourself. Your role is much bigger than you might have imagined. None of this is possible with out YOU. So you have to really believe in yourself and the power you hold within you to change your vibration so that you can create these things you've asked for.

You have to believe that you are able to practice the law of attraction. You have to believe that you have this connection to the Universe. You have to believe that you are this cosmic ball of energy that has the ability to change that energy to attract the energy of the people and things you need into your life.

“No matter how many times I break down, there is always a little piece of me that says NO, you're not done yet. GET BACK UP!”

“Fairy tales are more than true; not because they tell us that dragons exist, but because they tell us that dragons can be beaten.” ~G.K. Chesterson

“Don't be afraid to give yourself everything you've ever wanted in life.”

“A bird sitting on a tree is never afraid of the branch breaking, because her trust is not on the branch but on it's own wings. Always believe in yourself.”

5. Stop being a victim.

Too many people are constantly focused on the past. I have to stop myself even at times when I start talking about people that have hurt me too, so I know this can be hard. But it is absolutely essential. The more you talk and think about the things in your life that has gone wrong, the more of that you attract.

I have this friend, she is one of the most amazing people I know. She is beyond gorgeous, talented, smart and such a sweetheart. She has been married twice now with her last marriage ending in less than a year and with her husband running off with her bridesmaid and proposing to this new woman at the same place where him and my friend had honeymooned less than a year previously. She was devastated. She then found another man... same patterns ensued. He cheated, didn't give her the type of love she deserved. She was constantly going out of her way for him and yet he acted as if he deserved it just because he was alive and that she was a idiot for wanting him to be a decent man. This pattern still continues today. I heard from her tonight and she told me that "All men are the same... they only want to hurt me and cheat on me." I told her not all men do. I told her I know many more good guys than bad guys and she just needs to find the right one. They are not all want to use and abuse you. She replied "Yes they do! ALL MEN!" This is part of her problem. When each of these relationships ensue, I constantly hear how much she is taken for granted, how things will never change, how men don't love and respect her. She is so focused on letting people (including herself) know she is a victim, that she can not help but attract those types of men. She is constantly checking up and reporting back on her ex's and how wonderful they are doing with their new wives and girlfriends... her focus is in the past. I see quotes plastered daily from her on how hurt she is, how many people hurt her, and how these exes will someday realize what they lost. Because of her focus being in the past... this is why the Universe thinks she wants more of what her mind is on and keeps giving her more of the same thing.

The Universe decides what you want based on what you are thinking about the most. If you are thinking about how much of a victim you are and are constantly reliving these moments and emotions... the Universe will believe this is what you've ordered from it. So it is important to leave the victim mentality behind you. Let go of past hurts, forget the memories that come with them. Move on. You don't have to forgive these people, but you do have to forget what happened. You don't owe them anything, but you owe yourself everything. So stop playing victim and instead be someone who has luck on your side.

“You can't start the next chapter in your life if you keep re-reading the last one.”

“Let your past make you better, not bitter.”

“Starting today I need to forget whats gone, appreciate what remains, and look forward to whats coming next.”

“I can't go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.” ~Alice In Wonderland

“You will find it necessary to let things go; simply for the reason that they are heavy.”

“You can't reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday's junk.” ~Louise Smith

6. Be happy now!

Many people have a problem with believing they have to have certain things in their lives in order to be happy. They think "I can't be truly happy unless so and so falls in love with me." "I can't become happy until I have that Audi sitting in my driveway." "I can't be happy until all this debt is paid off." "I can't be happy until I am a size 6." The problem with this mindset is that you have to be happy before you get these things. So the key is to try and find happiness in the things and people (including yourself) you have now. Happiness is an emotion. It is in your possession. You get to be the one to choose how happy you are. People and things do not make you happy... you make you happy. You are the one who decides where your happiness comes from. So decide to be happy with what you have right now. That powerful emotion will shift your vibration to allow more things that make you happy to come into your life.

“I have decided to be happy, because it is good for my health.”

“The happiest people I know are always evaluating and improving themselves. The unhappy people are usually evaluating and judging others.” ~Lisa Vita Prosen

“Follow your bliss and the Universe will open doors where there were only walls.” ~Joseph Campbell

7. Focus on what you want, not what you don't want.

Like I said before, the Universe gives us what we think about. So it is very, very important to not think about what you don't want and instead think about what you do want.

For example... if you have this woman you are in love with but she is dating another man and you want them to break up. Stop focusing on him and her splitting because that still means that he is in your focus and will still be part of your life. Instead focus on what you do want which is you and her together. Imagine you and her kissing and going on dates... this tells the Universe what you want and obviously he wont be in the picture with you and her dating and kissing so it kills two birds with one stone. He is gone and you get the girl.

Since this can be a hard concept to understand... there is a part in the book The Secret that really, explains it well...

"When you focus your thoughts on something you want, and you hold that focus, you are in that moment summoning what you want with the mightiest power in the Universe. The law of attraction does not compute “don't” or “not” or “no,” or any other words of negation. As you speak words of negation this is what the law of attraction is receiving:

“I don't want to spill something on this outfit.”

“I want to spill something on this outfit and I want to spill more things.”

“I don't want a bad haircut.”

“I want bad haircuts.”

“I don't want to be delayed.”

“I want delays.”

“I don't want that person to be rude to me.”

“I want that person and more people to be rude to me.”

“I don't want the restaurant to give away our table.”

“I want the restaurants to give away our tables.”

“I don't want these shoes to hurt.”

“I want shoes to hurt.”

“I can't handle all this work.”

“I want more work that I can't handle.”

“I don't want to catch the flu.”

“I want the flu and I want to catch more things.”

“I don't want to argue.”

“I want more arguing.”

“Don't speak to me like that.”

“I want you to speak to me like that and I want other people to speak to me like that.”

The law of attraction is giving you what you are thinking about- period!

So make sure you shift your thoughts.

So instead of thinking you don't want to be sick... think that you want to be healthy. Instead of thinking you don't want someone to speak badly to you, think about how much you want people to speak to you in a nice manner. Instead of thinking how hard it is not having money, think about how nice it is having money. Instead of thinking about how much you miss someone, think about how nice it is having them around.

You need to think about the positives in your requests... not the negatives. Instead of telling the Universe what you don't want... tell it what you want and you will get more of that.

“Don't think about what might go wrong, think about what could go right.”

“Keep reminding yourself: I get what I think about whether I want it or not.” ~Dr. Wayne W. Dyer

“Focus on problems and you'll have more problems. When you focus on possibilities you have more opportunities. Dream. Wish. Make it happen.”

“Life is like a echo. What you send out comes back.” ~Chinese Proverb

“Life is a mirror and will reflect back to the thinker what he thinks into it.” ~Ernest Holmes

“The positive thinker sees the invisible, feels the intangible, and achieves the impossible.”

8.Use tools to help you change your mindset.

You can't expect a child who has not ever ridden a bicycle to hop on one and just perfectly ride into the sunset with out falling. This is why you use training wheels. You want that child to get used to the feeling of riding a bike, feel confident in how it works, and have the ability to enjoy the bike so that he can keep learning and getting better at this new hobby.

The Universe knows you need training wheels too and has given us several tools in order to help us learn how to use the law of attraction in the way we were meant to use it.

So this is where positive affirmations, switch words, positive quotes, gratitude journals, magick, crystals, meditation, hypnosis, vision boards, conversations with positive people and anything else that helps act as your training wheels comes into play.

So use these things as much as possible to help you with the law of attraction. The more you use them, the more they become habit and the more you will be able to get your vibration up so that you can manifest your dreams.

“Because if you keep hope alive, it will keep you alive.”

“You can't live a positive life with a negative mind.”

“What you think, you create. What you feel, you attract. What you imagine, you become.”

9. Be thankful every single day.

Even though we sort of went though this with the love topic... it bears repeating because you don't have to love everything you are thankful for. But you should be thankful for as many things as you can, see something positive on a daily and hourly basis.

When you go to bed at night, go through the list of things you are thankful for. List even the tiny things. Be thankful for that bed you are in... even if it's not the bed of your dreams and might not give you the best rest... be so very thankful you have it. Be thankful for the roof over your head. Be thankful for the things you have eaten that day. Be thankful for the senses you used that day. Be thankful for the people in your life. Be thankful for the dishes you own, for the clothes you have on, for the cat asleep at your side. Be thankful!

Wake up the next morning and say “Thank You” to the Universe as you get out of bed. Ensure that day will be full of happiness and put yourself in the mood you want to set the day to. Be thankful you woke up... you might not be refreshed... but you are alive and well. Be thankful for that. Go through your list of things you are thankful for. As you brush your teeth, be thankful you have teeth to brush. As you go to the bathroom... be extra thankful to the person who invented the toilet and toilet paper! Seriously! Lol So just go throughout your day giving thanks for all the things you have in your life.

No matter how poor you feel... to someone else... you might be their idea of wealthy.

No matter how many relationship problems you have... to someone else... you might be their idea of someone who is truly loved.

No matter how fat you feel... to someone else... you might be the person with the ideal body or at their goal weight.

So be happy with what you have right now. Things will get better if you are grateful for the things you already have. This is how the laws of the Universe work.

“Acknowledging the good that you already have in your life is the foundation for all abundance.” ~Eckhart Tolle

"If you want to turn your life around, try thankfulness. It will change your life mightily." ~Gerald Good

"Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough." ~Oprah Winfrey

10. Use passion.

Passion is an intense emotion. It is what drives us to achieve things that are most amazing and beautiful. No one who has ever painted a masterpiece, or invented something amazing, or ran a marathon, became president, or went from a size 20 to a size 2, ever lacked passion. Passion was the gasoline in their engine. They knew what they wanted and they did not waiver until their vision was complete.

This is how you need to look at the things you want in your life. You have to have that passion behind those goals and wishes. Even though you may not see how these things will take place or when... you have to have that passion behind them to know they will.

“ Make it happen. Shock every single one of them.”

“One cannot be prepared for something while secretly believing it will not happen.” ~Nelson Mandela

“Believe in your dream so much that it has no choice but materialize.”

“Act like it's impossible to fail.”

11. Play pretend and feel your wishes in the present tense.

Visualization is one of the most important things in order to get your wishes to manifest for you. Your psyche might not deep down believe or see these things are possible and so you need to change this by making your subconscious believe these things are already happening for you. So to do this, close your eyes and play pretend in your mind.

If you are in love with someone... close your eyes and come up with a scenario you would like to act out with them. You can think about you two on the couch under a blanket with some popcorn you've just made and ready to watch a movie together. Use all your senses in this vision... smell the popcorn. Feel how soft the blanket is and how warm your lovers body is right up against your leg and body. Hear the movie in the background as you see your lover move in to kiss you. Feel the taste of their lips on your own. Put your mind in THAT body that is experiencing these things. Find experiences you can have with your lover right now. Go on vacations together. Go dancing. Do anything you want to do. The subconscious will start to believe you've already been doing these things and you will have memories of being with your lover as if they actually happened. What this does is it signals to the Universe what you are looking for so that the Universe can start to give you these things. It also erases doubt from your mind.

One of my favorite things to do is to build my dream house. Pinterest has been an amazing tool for doing this. So when I have time alone, I get on pinterest and look up decorating ideas and houses I would love to own. Instead of having anxiety because I can't afford these things now, I tell myself that when the money to buy the house comes in, I want to know what I want so I am preparing myself right now. So I pick out everything I want no matter how outrageous it is. I want my vibration to be set to attract this house. When I am done... I lay down, close my eyes and think about how it feels opening the door I saw that I loved... what that gorgeous wood flooring looks like and how cool it feels under my bare feet. I walk into my kitchen and open my huge stainless steel fridge that is perfectly clean and organized and pick out a container of fresh strawberries. I grab one and feel it on my lips as I can taste it's sweetness on my tongue. I walk to my back door and walk out onto the deck. I can feel my hair blowing in the wind and the sun warm on my face. There are birds chirping in the distance with the faint sound of the trees rattling in the wind. I smell the chlorine from my sparkling blue pool which I plan to swim in a bit later tonight once it is dark because it is so peaceful.

That was one of my visualizations. You of course can make up your own. But make it a priority to play pretend and visualize your goals in real time on a daily basis.

“Visualize this thing that you want, see it, feel it, believe in it. Make your mental blue print, and begin to build.” ~Robert Collier

“It comes down to something really simple: Can I visualize myself playing those scenes? If that happens, then I know that I will probably end up doing it.” ~Jessica Lange

“To dream by night is to escape your life. To dream by day is to make it happen.” ~Stephen Richards

“In order to carry a positive action, we must develop here a positive vision.” ~Dalai Lama

12. Act on your inspired thoughts.

You need to co-create with the Universe. If you have a business that is failing and you ask that you are able to stay alive and thrive with it... the Universe might bring you extra customers, might give you ideas to help change and add onto your business, or both. So you need to be ready to act once you have a inspired idea that really hits you. It is best to write these down so you don't forget, and then come back to them soon after to plan how to put this idea into action. Take the time to do it right, but the point is to do it.

“Action is the foundational key to all success.” ~Pablo Picasso

“There are risks and costs to action. But they are far less than the long range ricks of comfortable inaction.” ~John F. Kennedy

“Your positive action combined with positive thinking results in success.” ~Shiv Khera

13. Stay away from negative influences.

We take in energy from those around us. If we are around someone who is always complaining or upset... like second hand smoke, we will become emotionally sick from it too. So do everything in your power to remove yourself from things that have a negative impact on your energy.

You might not realize how much around you is negative and causes your vibration to sink. Things as simple as a sad or depressing TV show dramas or movies cause you to feel the things the actors are going though... this is why you jump when you are watching horror movies. Your adrenals even release a hormone to help you run from the monster because your subconscious actually believes these things are happening to you since you put yourself in that TV show or movie while you watch it. This is how powerful emotions from outside sources can be taken in and transferred into our minds, souls, and bodies. So try instead to focus on picking out things that make you feel motivated and happy. Find things that make you laugh.

Stay away from people who cause you to feel bad or get you to enter into a conversation that is pure gossip, complaining, or bulling. These can be friends and family members or can even be strangers online. People who always have something bad happening in their lives will want the same for you... misery loves company. So when you are company for these people, they will suck you into their drama and get you to focus and worry about things in your own life since that is what they enjoy hearing about. So stay away from these people. They will not help you, they will harm you. If you have to be around them because they are family or co-workers, try to not enter into any conversations about yourself that they can use to drag you down and instead try to talk about things that are quite frankly boring. You want them to think you are not someone they enjoy conversing with so that they are less likely to bother you. If you feel drained after being around them... do something that makes you feel better and get your energy back up again.

Stay away from the News. I know you want to be informed, and that is great... but not when all the things you read or see are negative and cause you frustration, worry, and hurt. The news loves to report on things that cause big emotions. Anger, fear, and sadness are emotions that usually already have passion behind them and so these are emotions the news likes to trigger because it keeps people coming back. If it reported on happy things all day, you're probably going to start getting out and finding things to do with your happy self. So this is why they focus on the shocking, disappointing, horrible, and scary things in life. You are compelled to come back to see what else is going on. So this is something you need to avoid. When you hear of animals or children being abused, it hurts you too. You feel that pain for them. When you hear about possible corruption and secrets in the government it makes you mad. That anger stays with you. When you hear of a killer on the loose in your town, it causes you to become afraid. This fear and anxiety lives with you and changes your vibration. These are things you are not able to change anyway, so you don't need to know about them. These are things that instead change you. They change your vibration and your happiness.

I've said it before and will say it again... stop with the social media! I had a Facebook account for a short period of time and it was so incredibly draining on me. I would get on there and be bombarded with people complaining about their lives. People getting involved in family drama and fighting with each other. News stories about horrible things happening in the world and pictures of animals being hurt or children sick simply asking for a “like” or “share” to heal them. Even the good stories had negative things all around it. I don't think there was one positive article I could read with out comments that were absolutely hate-filled and disgusting. I'd see people putting down people they didn't know in articles for every choice they made in their lives be it parenting styles, their weight, their hair cut, their sexuality, their home décor, their political thoughts, their grammar, their religion... anything. No matter how positive the articles were... there were several comments right under them that were so negative. This is when I decided that Facebook was not good for me or my happiness and I gave it up. I really think you should consider the same. Even if it is putting your account on hold for a while or at least allowing yourself only to check it once a week or so just to catch up with friends and family. Let go of the social media as much as you can as it does not contribute to your happiness what so ever!

So, stop giving these negative influences in your life control over your vibration because they are not looking out for you and have no problem with your vibration and happiness slipping. So take back your own control over your own vibration and happiness and stay away from these things!

“Don't worry about what people say behind your back. They're the ones who find faults in your life instead of fixing their own.” ~C.S. Lewis

“I will not let anyone walk though my mind with their dirty feet.” ~Gandhi

“There comes a time in life when you have to let go of all the pointless drama & the people who create it & surround yourself with people who make you laugh so hard that you forget the bad and focus solely on the good. After all, life is too short to be anything but happy.”

“Negative people need drama like it's oxygen. Stay positive and take their breath away.”

“Make sure everyone in your “boat” is rowing and not drilling holes when you're not looking. Know your circle.”

“If you allow people to make more withdrawals than deposits in your life, you will be out of balance and in the negative. Know when to close the account.”

“Life is too short to stress yourself with people who don't even deserve to be a issue in your life.”

14. Stay patient.

One of the things people have the biggest problem with is patience. They might believe they are being patient because they waited until they reached their “limit” but this is not patience. This is again telling the Universe that you are in control of the time in which it is supposed to happen for you and the Universe just doesn't work that way. So if you have passion and really, truly, want something, you will wait for it as long as it needs to so that it is ready to come to you.

It is like waiting for a bird to hatch from a egg. Sure, you might think it takes a long time... it does... but if you get impatient and break the shell before the chick is ready... the poor little thing will die. You'll be left without your chick and having to start all over again. So, you have to give that chick all the time she needs in order to come into your world. She has to be the one to remove the last remaining bit of shell from her body. Use the same concept with your wishes. Even if you can't see things working or growing just like you are unable to physically peek into that egg shell... things are happening. You wanting to give up and get into that egg to see if something is really going on or prematurely deciding this is the time for the chick to hatch because you are ready for it now is the best way to ensure you don't get to have the end result of what has been working so hard to manifest for you.

If you follow the other suggestions... your wait time will be so much less than if you don't do anything with the law of attraction. It is all about vibrations. You control your vibrations and so you get to control how fast things manifest for you. Spells can manifest without you getting your vibration where it should be... but it does take a lot longer because the Universe looks to you to guide the energy and request we put out there for you. The more powerful your spell... the more important it is to get your vibration in check since we are looking for something big to happen right away. So you need to make sure your energy matches that. So by following the above advice, you will not have to be as patient as others who don't follow it.

“Two things define you. Your patience when you have nothing, and your attitude when you have everything.”

“Patience is not the ability to wait, but the ability to keep a good attitude while waiting.” ~Joyce Meyer

“When things don't happen right away, just remember that it takes 6 months to build a Rolls-Royce and 13 hours to build a Toyota.”

“Patience is the key that solves all problems.”

Below is a list of awesome quotes that will help get you started on understanding and feeling the LOA. I encourage you to read and find positive quotes each single day...

“Always believe that something wonderful is about to happen.”

“Beliefs, and the feelings that we have about them, are the language that “speaks” to the quantum stuff that makes our realty.” ~Gregg Braden

“The amount of time it takes you to get from where you are to where you want to be, is only the amount of time it takes you to change the vibration within you. Instant manifestation could be yours if you could instantly change the vibration.” ~Abraham-Hicks

“If you are depressed, you are living in the past.

If you are anxious, you are living in the future.

If you are at peace, you are living in the present.”

“A bad attitude is like a flat tire, you can't go anywhere unless you change it.”

“The secret to having it all, is knowing you already do.”

“Close your eyes and imagine the best version of you possible. That's who you really are. Let go of any part of you that doesn't believe it.” ~C Assaad

“Don't confuse your path with your destination. Just because it's stormy now doesn't mean that you aren't headed for sunshine.”

“At any given moment you have the power to say: This is NOT how the story is going to end.”

“Be soft. Don't let the world make you hard. Do not let the pain make you hate. Do not let bitterness steal your sweetness. Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place.” ~Kurt Vonnegut

“Sometimes the biggest step in the right direction ends up being the biggest step of your life. Tip toe if you must, but take that step.”

“When you look at a field of dandelions, you can either see a hundred weeds or a hundred wishes...”

“We can easily forgive a child who is afraid of the dark; the real tragedy of life is when men are afraid of the light.” ~Plato

“Giving up on your goal because of one set back is like slashing all other three tires because you got a flat.”